Shabbos: Ta’am HaChaim Balak 5770

שבת טעם החיים בלק תש"ע
Shabbos: Ta’am HaChaim Balak 5770

Seeing into the future

Introduction
וירא בלק בן צפור את כל אשר עשה ישראל לאמרי, Balak son of Tzipor saw all that Israel had done to the Amorite (Bamidbar 22:2)
There is an interesting theme that is recurring throughout the Book of Bamidbar, and that is the concept of sight. The first instance that we discover mention of sight is when the Torah states that there is a prohibition to see the Holy of Holies while dismantling the Mishkan. In Parashas Naso there are a few references to sight. One instance is that the Gemara states that the portion discussing a Sota and the portion discussing a Nazir are juxtaposed because one who “sees” a Sota in her disgrace should abstain from wine. Another example is that the Gemara states that one is forbidden from gazing at the Kohanim when they raise their hands to bless the congregation. In Parashas Behaaloscha we find that Aharon “saw” that he and his tribe were not included in the offerings that had been brought by the Nesiim, the leaders of the tribes. Additionally, Moshe requested from Yisro that he function as “the eyes” of the people in the Wilderness. In Parsahas Shelach Moshe instructs the spies to see the Land and the Gemara states that the spies spoke before they allowed their eyes to see. The end of the parsha discusses the mitzvah of tzitzis where we are instructed to see the tzitzis and remember all of the mitzvos. Korach, according to the Medrash, saw that in the future great people would descend from him. Further on in the parasha when HaShem chose the staff of Aharon over the staffs of the other tribe leaders, it is said that they saw and they took, each man his staff. In Parsahas Chukas we find that that Hashem instructed Moshe to speak to the rock before the eyes of the people, and because he hit the rock instead, HaShem punished him for not sanctifying His Name before the eyes of the Jewish People. Upon the death of Aharon, it is said that the Jewish People saw that Aharon had died and they all wept. After the Jews were punished for talking against HaShem and Moshe, they were instructed to gaze upon the copper snake to be healed from the bite of the snake. In this week’s parsha, the Torah states that Balak saw what the Jewish People had done to the Emori. The entire parasha is replete with instances of Balaam attempting to see the Jewish nation from various locations so he could affect his curse on them. The Mishnah states that one of Balaam’s three evil characteristics was that he had a bad eye. Furthermore, Balaam was blind in one eye. The end of the parasha informs us that while a plague was raging throughput the Jewish camp, Pinchas saw what was happening and took action, stopping the plague in its tracks. In Parashas Pinchas Hashem instructs Moshe to ascend the Mountain of Avarim and see the Land that HaShem will give to the Jewish People. Hashem then instructs Moshe to take Yehoshua and command him before the eyes of the people. Parashas Matos discusses the ambitions of the tribes of Reuven and Gad who saw that the other side of the Jordan River was a suitable place for their livestock. In Parashas Matos HaShem tells Moshe to inform the Jewish People that if they do not drive out the inhabitants of the Land, then those who they leave will be pins in their eyes and a surrounding barrier of thorns in their sides. Further on in the parasha the Torah discusses one who kills unintentionally, and one example of unintentional murder is when one throws a stone without seeing the other person. The parsha ends with the command that the daughters of Tzelafchad should be wives to whomever is good in their eyes.
Tamuz is the month of the eyes
While the Torah mentions eyes and sight frequently, there appears to be a special emphasis on this idea throughout the Book of Bamidbar. It is noteworthy that the Sefer Yetzirah writes that the month of Tamuz reflects the eyes. The Meraglim journeyed throughout Eretz Yisroel for the entire month of Tamuz, returning on Tisha BaAv. The Gemara (Taanis 29a) states that the spies caused the Jewish People to cry on Tisha BaAv. Hashem declared, “ You have cried tears in vain. I will give you something to cry about for future generations. This crying would be over the destruction of the first and Bais HaMikdash, which both occurred on the ninth of Av. Regarding the destruction of the Bais HaMikdash it is said (Yechezkel 24:16) hinini lokeiach mimcha machmad eninecho bamageifa, behold, I am taking from you the darling of your eyes in a plague. The Gemara (Sanhedrin 22a) states that this verse refers to the Bais HaMikdash. Thus, we see that the months of Tamuz and Av are a period when the eyes play a critical function in the health of the Jewish People.

One must use his vision properly
Essentially, the parasha of Balaam attempting to curse the Jewish People is the highlight of the Book of Bamidbar, which is the Book of the Eyes. Balaam sought to cast his evil eye upon the Jewish People, and HaShem thwarted his efforts. The Mishnah highlights the distinction between the disciples of Avraham and the disciples of Balaam by stating that the disciples of Avraham have a good eye whereas the disciples of Balaam have an evil eye. It is noteworthy that Balaam sought to die the death of the Just, which is an allusion to the Patriarchs. His mistake was that one has to live the life that the Patriarchs lived in order to die like them. Balaam lacked the proper foresight to realize this, as is alluded to in the statement of the Gemara that he was blind in one eye. He had one eye on glory but the other eye was closed as to how one could achieve that glory. This theem3 is recurring throughout the Book of Bamidbar. Korach also sought glory, but he did not see properly that he would be lost and it was his children who would repent and have the glory emanate from them. Similarly, the tribes of Reuven and Gad saw grazing land but they did not take into account that their tribes, many years later, be exiled before the other tribes. Perhaps the greatest misfortune for the entire Jewish People was the lack of foresight exhibited by the spies. The Zohar states that their motive for slandering the Land and was because they foresaw that that they would lose their leadership roles upon entry into Eretz Yisroel. Instead, they lost their lives and caused untold suffering for all future generations. Thus, a lack of proper vision can have calamitous results.


The message from Balaam is that we utilize our eyes for the good, both for the individual and for the collective. In this way we can be assured that we are following in the footsteps of Avraham, who always sought the good in man.
The Shabbos connection
Shabbos is referred to as a semblance of the World to Come, and the Gemara (Sanhedrin 99a) states that all the prophets were able to prophesize until the Messianic era. Beyond that, however, it is said (Yeshaya 64:3) ayin lo raasa Elokim zulascha, no eye except Yours, O G-d, has seen [that which] He will do for one who awaits Him. The World to Come is beyond our vision, and this in itself is a blessing. Something that is not tainted by human eyes remains perfect. Hashem allows us a taste of the World to Come in this world, by granting us His Precious gift of Shabbos. It should be His will that we use this gift properly and then we will see an end to all of our suffering with the arrival of Moshiach Tzidkeinu, speedily, in our days.
Shabbos Stories
Reb Elchonon Wasserman's Last Drasha
Reb Elchonon Wasserman was one of the great pre-war Roshei Yeshiva in Europe. He learned in Telz Yeshiva and joined the Chafetz Chaim's Kodshim Kollel later on, where he learned B'Chavrusa with Rav Yosef Shlomo Kahanamen the Ponovezher Rav. During this period he became very close with the Chafetz Chaim whom he considered his Rebbi. Reb Elchonon was the Chafetz Chaim's spiritual heir, becoming the ultimate arbiter of Daas Torah for the pre-Holocaust generation fighting haskala, Zionism, communism, and the other ills of the generation.

Reb Elchonon was in his mid-60s when the war broke out. He had spent a great deal of time in America collecting for his Yeshiva in Baranovitch. Although he was quite fond of the few Binei Torah he met in America and held our great hope and promise for their future, nevertheless he resisted their pleas to remain in America and chose to return to a Europe that was about to engulfed in flames. As Rosh Yeshiva and the conscience of the Lithuanian Yeshiva world, he felt personal and public responsibility to be with his flock in their time of need, come what may.

Tragically Reb Elchonon fell victim to the Nazi collaborators on 11 Tammuz 5701/1941 when he was murdered AL Kiddush Hashem along with his son and a handful of talmidim and other Rabbonim. Sadly his death did not come together with the Talmidim he chose to return to from the safe shores of America. He was taken in Kovno while on a short trip to take care of some documents in order to secure visas for escape.

Reb Ephraim Oshry, who was 27 years old at that time, was one of the few that managed to escape. He related the following about the last thing Reb Elchonon told them.

When they saw the end was near Reb Elchonon got up and spoke to them. He spoke the same way he always did; he was calm and there was no indication of panic. He said the following.

"In Shamayim it seems that they consider us to be Tzadikim, because we have been chosen to be Korbanos for Klal Yisroel. Therefore, we must do Teshuvah now. We don't have much time. We must keep in mind that we will be better korbanos if we do teshuvah. In this way we will save the Yidden in America. Let no foreign thought enter our minds, Chas Vishalom, as that will make us pigul, an unfit Korban. We are now fulfilling the greatest mitzvah. Yerushalayim was destroyed with fire and will be rebuilt with fire. The same fire that will consume our bodies will one day rebuild Klal Yisroel."

The Alter Of Novhardok Teaches Rav Isser Zalman Meltzer To Get Dressed Up But Not To Dance
One of the main lessons of the Alter Of Novhardok was the problem of Nigius, self interest. Nigius he said, insidiously crawls its way into every decision we make, contaminates the mind, and corrupts our minds and our ability to think honestly and clearly.

The Chaim SheYesh Bahem (Korach) says that Rav Isser Zalman Meltzer personally learned a lesson on the Nigia of laziness from the Alter Of Novhardok. Rav Isser Zalman said that when a person needs to make a decision if a visitor to town is due respect and one must go greet him, the first thing he must eliminate to make a proper decision is Nigia of laziness which will skew the decision in favor of not going.

How can this be achieved, asked Rav Isser Zalman? The Alter provided the perfect solution. When a distinguished guest who may possibly deserve kavod arrived to town, the Alter would get dressed up in his finest clothing and go to the home where the guest is lodging. When he reached the lodging, he would stand outside and only then decide if this person is deserving of this honor. In that way he eliminated laziness as a consideration in his decision.

Thanks to this lesson, said Rav Isser, I have a practice that when someone asks me for a letter of recommendation I immediately write one. Only after I have taken the time and effort to do this, do I then consider if he is deserving of it. Only if he truly deserves it, do I give it to him.

Shabbos: Ta’am HaChaim Balak 5770
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Shabbos: Ta’am HaChaim Parashas Ki Seitzei 5769

שבת טעם החיים פרשת כי תצא תשס"ט
Shabbos: Ta’am HaChaim Parashas Ki Seitzei 5769

Go out with joy
Introduction
This week’s parasha, Ki Seitzei, commences with the laws regarding the Jewish People going out to battle. Rashi writes that the battle referred to here is a discretionary battle, i.e. the Jewish People are not required to wage war against their enemies. Rather, the battle is one where the nation chooses to expand their territory. It is regarding this battle that the Torah instructs the Jew how to deal with the eishes yifas toar, the beautiful gentile woman who is captured in battle.
Leave depression with joy
The commentators cite a Medrash that offers a different interpretation of this battle. They write that this battle is referred to as a milchemes hayeitzer, a battle against the Evil Inclination. While we may all be familiar with this struggle, one must wonder why the Torah alludes to this battle by stating that one goes out to wage battle against the Evil Inclination. In fact, it would seem that the opposite is true. When one is outside his safe environment and is confronted by the temptation to sin, he should escape inside, similar to the statement of the Gemara (Sukkah 52b) that one who sees this “disgusting one,” i.e. the Evil Inclination, he should bring him into the study hall. What, then, is the meaning of the Medrash that states that one should go out to battle his Evil Inclination? Perhaps we can understand the parallel easier with a teaching from the Lev Simcha, the Gerrer Rebbe (14 Nissan 5658 – 7 Tammuz 5752). It is said (Yeshaya) ki vismicha seitzeiu, you will go out with joy. The Lev Simcha interprets this verse homiletically to mean that one can exit his state of depression and worries by being in a state with joy. Let us delve into this deceptively simple statement.
Going to a Tzaddik helps even more
What is the biggest obstacle that prevents a person from accomplishing feats in this world? Some may suggest that it is lack of discipline and focus, but in truth, there is even a larger component at play. The real barrier between us and our potential accomplishments is a lack of joy. We can illustrate the idea that a lack of joy effects one’s accomplishments with the following story. It is told of the Chassid whose neighbor once asked him about the necessity of his travels to the Rebbe. “Is it not enough”, asked the neighbor, “to pore over the Chassidic and mussar literature in your own home?” The Chassid responded, “when I sit in my house with a book and begin to study, the Evil Inclination eventually gets up and begins to dance on my table, and the Evil Inclination then kicks my book open to the chapter that discusses the inherent weakness of man and how one must exert himself to overcome the Evil Inclination. Upon reading this chapter, I instantly become forlorn, and I am overcome with uncertainty about my ability to best the Evil Inclination. When I travel to the Tzaddik, however, he knows exactly what I am lacking and what I need to repair my faults. He strengthens me and gives me the Tikkun, the rectification that my soul needs.”
During Elul we can come before HaShem with joy
In a similar vein, we can suggest that while one can certainly spend time philosophizing about what is preventing him from serving HaShem properly, he is stilled mired in the mud of his misdeeds and character faults. Yet, when one begins to serve HaShem with joy, he has already left behind his state of depression and now he can truly serve HaShem with joy. This task of serving HaShem with joy should be in our minds in the month of Elul, as we approach the High Holy Days, when we will stand before HaShem in judgment for the past years deeds. Although we must view the Day of Judgment with the utmost seriousness, we are also instructed to prepare for these awesome days with a certain sense of joy, as we are confident that HaShem will vindicate us in his judgment and bless us with a good year.
The Shabbos connection
Shabbos is a day of joy, as it is said (Bamidbar 10:10) uviyom simchaschem uvimoadeichem, on a day of your gladness, and on your festivals, and the Sifri (Ibid) writes that your day of joy refers to Shabbos. Furthermore, in the Shabbos prayers we recite the words yismichu vimalchuscha shomrei Shabbos vikorei oneg, they shall rejoice in Your kingship – those who observe the Shabbos and call it a delight. Given that Shabbos is a day of joy, we should make the most of this opportunity that HaShem has given us and we should delight in the Holy Shabbos.


Shabbos Stories
Rebuking for HaShem’s honor
Shlomo Katz writes: One year on Shabbos Shuvah, Reb Elchonon Wasserman z”l (Rosh Yeshiva of Yeshiva Ohel Torah in Baranovitch, Poland; killed in the Holocaust) went to shul to hear the derashah that was scheduled to be delivered by the town’s rabbi. However, a messenger arrived, saying that the rabbi was ill and would not be speaking.
Immediately, the assembled congregates turned to Rav Wasserman and asked him to speak. He refused repeatedly, but the congregation would not take "no" for an answer.
So Rav Wasserman ascended the pulpit and began his remarks as follows: The Torah reports that Moshe Rabbeinu was the humblest of all men. How then did he call upon the awesome heavens and earth (in the above verse) to bear witness to his words?
Rav Wasserman answered his own question: The key is found two verses later, where we read, “When I call out the Name of HaShem, ascribe greatness to our G-d.” I am not speaking for my own honor, nor are these my own thoughts, Moshe Rabbeinu was proclaiming. The words of rebuke that I (Moshe) will speak are the words of the Torah, and they are spoken for G- d’s honor.
You, too, may wonder - Rav Wasserman concluded his introduction - who I am to rebuke you. Know, therefore, that everything that I will say will be the words of the Torah and will be spoken for G-d’s honor alone. (Otzrosaihem Shel Tzaddikim p.621)
One can change any time
“For they are a generation of reversals . . .” (Devarim 32:20)
Reb Yisroel Alter z”l (the Gerrer Rebbe; died 1977) would not permit the shteibels / small prayer and study houses of his followers to expel any member, even if he seemed to behave in a manner unbecoming of a chassid and member of the community. The Rebbe explained that so long as the individual continued coming to the shteibel, that alone was reason to hope that he would someday mend his ways.
As support for his position, Rav Alter quoted the interpretation of our verse offered by R' Zusia z”l of Annipol (late 18th century chassidic rebbe): “They are a generation of reversals” - the Jewish People of our time are wont to change their nature suddenly and unpredictably. Thus, someone who was, one day, headed in the wrong spiritual direction may unpredictably change course at any time. (Otzrosaihem Shel Tzaddikim p.622)
Love for a son, love for a father
Rabbi Frand writes: I recently heard the following true story: A father had a son who (as is all too often the case) was having problems during his teenage years. The son was not acting as he should and he gave his father much grief. In hope of putting the son on the right path, the father sent him to Eretz Yisroel with the hope that somehow in the Holy Land, the boy would straighten out. In Israel, the son visited a psychologist who had some success with the lad. The father visited the son that year and decided to go speak to the psychologist himself to hear firsthand how his son was doing. The psychologist explained to the father that the problem he was having with his son could be traced back to unresolved issues that he (the father) was having with his own father.
The person heard what the psychologist said and understood it. But when he came back to America, he really did not act upon it. Several months later, however, a friend of the boy’s father lost his own father and was sitting shiva. The father went to visit his friend who was mourner the loss. The mourner made the following comment: “I lost the person in the world who loved me the most. No one loved me like my father.”
When the father with the problem son heard this comment, it stuck with him. He deeply wished that he could make a statement like that about his own father. He wished that he could feel he had a father who loved him. He decided that the next time the Israeli psychologist came to America, he would make an appointment to see him together with his own father so that the two of them could try to work out their issues. And so it was. The psychologist came to America. The father went to his own father – a European Jew, a holocaust survivor – and said “I want to go with you to a psychologist.” He explained, “Our relationship has suffered for years. Maybe we can do something to improve it.”
Much to his surprise, the father agreed and thus the “grandfather” and the “father” went to the psychologist and had a session. At that session, when the “grandfather” began telling over his life story – the events that happened before, during, and after the holocaust -- how he was instrumental in saving members of his own family from death and so on –- the “father” suddenly had an amazing epiphany. He turned to his father and said. “I never knew this about you! You are a hero! I never knew this. The only thing I knew about you was that I was afraid of you.”
The “grandfather” turned to his son and said, “I love you more than anything else in the world.” Those words that the son (now a middle aged man) was longing to hear his whole life, he now heard from his own father. This “father” then had an even greater epiphany and an even greater awakening: “If my father who is flesh and blood loves me that much, then how much more so does the Ribono shel Olam [Master of the Universe] love me!” This awakening changed the person's entire relationship not only with his own father, but with his Father in Heaven. [Reprinted with permission from www.Torah.org]

Shabbos: Ta’am HaChaim
Parashas Ki Seitzei 5769
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